The Approach

I believe that animals are sent to us by God to teach us lessons, and nowhere is this more evident than in the bond between humans and their dogs. Dogs mirror our emotions, energy, and behaviors—sometimes in ways we don’t immediately recognize. Their challenges often reflect our own, intensifying until we confront the weaknesses within ourselves.

Let me share a real-life example. For over a year, my dog suffered from relentless itching. Determined to avoid medication—which often only masks symptoms while causing long-term harm—I embarked on a quest for a natural solution. While various treatments reduced the itching, nothing completely stopped it. Watching my pup suffer was excruciating, and I felt lost.

That’s when I turned my focus inward, convinced there had to be a connection between my state of being and her condition. I had always known that dogs respond to human energy, that their behavior shifts based on the bond they share with their owners. I had applied this understanding to behavioral modification countless times, adjusting human energy and interaction to shift a dog's actions. But physical ailments? That was a realm I hadn’t fully explored.

I was aware that diet, medications, vaccines, and environmental toxins could trigger behavioral changes, including sudden aggression or fear. But what if my own internal struggles were manifesting in my dog’s discomfort? With nothing to lose, I decided to test this theory—I stopped focusing solely on my pup and started working on myself.

That was when I saw real change. As I actively calmed my nervous system, her symptoms eased. The energy transfer was undeniable; the more I worked on my inner world—through meditation, emotional reflection, and shadow work—the more her body responded in kind. It became clear: she had been trying to tell me something. Her relentless scratching was a plea for me to address my own anxiety, to dig deep and heal.

This revelation transformed the way I approach behavior modification. My work with dogs now begins with a holistic assessment—not just of the animal, but of the human-dog dynamic.

First, I examine the dog's overall health. What is its diet? What is its history with vaccines, flea and tick treatments, and medications? These factors can profoundly impact both physical well-being and behavior. If toxic exposures are contributing to distress, we create a health plan to eliminate harmful influences.

Then, I focus on the human-dog relationship. Has trust been established? Has respect been earned? Is the human clearly communicating expectations? Often, behavioral issues are not about the dog at all—they are reflections of the owner’s energy, beliefs, and unresolved struggles. By shifting human behavior, we shift the dog’s response.

This work is about more than training; it’s about healing. It is about seeing beyond symptoms and understanding the deeper connection between human and animal—a bond built on trust, energy, and the willingness to grow together.